
I won the Baby-Pool!! 10-10-10 was THE day! The day I became a grandmother. The day my heart skipped a beat.
Although the DIL wasn’t due until 10-15-10, I had a . . . feeling. My son called me bright and early that morning and said, “Mama, you were right!” I squealed because I KNEW exactly what he was talking about (the much awaited day), but I still kept repeatedly asking “Really? Really?” My head was s.p.i.n.n.i.n.g..
He explained that her water broke and that they were at the hospital already and that there was no need to hurry as it was going to be a long day. I took him some breakfast and a couple of drinks, then back home to take a shower. (The hospital is literally one mile away from my house)
When I got back to the hospital, my ex was there in the waiting room. We had a pretty good time hanging out there (excited about our newfound grandparent status) watching Sunday Football while I kept going back and forth to the delivery room for a progress report. It WAS a long day! About 6:20 pm, sweet baby Kylee entered our world.

She got off to a rough start with some breathing problems and suspected heart problems and had to stay in the hospital for awhile longer that we’d expected. But she is home now and doing well. It was just a rough couple of weeks.
I’d never been so grateful as to have the hospital so close to my house and my work since I was back and forth a gajillion times a day. I tried not to be a complete pest, but I couldn’t help myself. My son and DIL never left the hospital. I delivered food and drinks and anything else they needed. (It made me feel useful in a helpless situation) We were all so worried for so long.

I just prayed and prayed for this little angel. She was so beautiful! It was so hard to believe that she was having so many problems inside. She had the most beautiful skin I’d ever seen on a baby from day one. My boys were born blotchy with misshapen heads and resembled little old men rather than the angelic babies I’d envisioned. Kylee was angelic! Kylee has stolen my heart.
And not that I’m biased or anything, but what a good baby!!! She’s very chill and rarely cries. When she does, it’s more of a squeak. Adam said, “It’s awesome how she cries so quietly.” I told him that she was just reeling him in; that she’d break out the big lungs later. She just had so much to deal with so early in her little life with the poking and proding and wires and tubes that I find it stunning that she’s just so chill.

I can’t wait to get to know this new little member of our family. I HAVE to take more pictures. I just hope that DIL (who is trying to break my heart) will let me. **a whole other story that I’m hoping some Zoloft can cure**



















19 users commented in " My First Grandbaby!! Isn’t She Lovely? "
Follow-up comment rss or Leave a TrackbackOMG she IS precious!! I had no idea you were going through so much trauma Donna! I love that last picture with her and the Teddy. She is smiling!! ((hugs))
She is absolutely perfect! What a beautiful little girl. I hope whatever the troubles with your DIL are get worked out quickly.
She is a beauty !!!!!!!!
Donna how perfect she looks sitting there. Will say many prayers for you and for her that you have many many memories together..What a blessing to your family! : )
The wait for these photos were worth it. Absolutely, the perfect little granddaughter.
Your son holds you dear and will make sure granny gets her needed time. I am sure of that. Can’t wait for more photos. Take good care of yourself grandma. ~ Deb
Mel and I have been loving the pics you’ve sent, and praying very hard for her. She feels a special bond with Kylee, since she went through a similar experience when she was born. She asks me many times, “How’s Kylee? How’s Donna?” I’m so blessed to have you in my life, Donna, where my daughter has a special bond. With you…I know it’s forever. Unlike some people. Who shall remain nameless. (Byegones.)
And Donna, if I can come over there and knock the DIL’s head up against her dad’s head, I will do it. For them to put you through this, all because of the love you have for your son…that is criminal. And I know that’s what it is, Donna. She’s jealous of your relationship with her husband. She got her hooks into him, reeled him in, and when you weren’t needed to keep him anymore…she dumped you. And daddy helped. Daddy needs psychological help–and if she thinks he’s playing with a full deck, she needs it too. Isn’t that why she ran away in the first place? Am I remembering right? She ran away, didn’t she?
I don’t even give a shit if she reads this comment. She can bite me. I’ll fly over there, just so she can bite me. How dare she make you feel horrible, when this is such an exciting time for you and your heart is bursting with pride and love. How dare either of them.
Donna, I love you, I love your sons, and I love Kylee. I will keep believing that right will override wrong, and you will be happy and content. Please God.
She is lovely, absolutely and perfectly lovely. There is nothing in the world like being a grandma. Congratulations, and welcome to the club!
No Shelley did not run away from home, she lived there until she was twenty. Yes Daddy is playing with a full deck. No daddy does not appreciate people portraying themselves to be christian and then gossiping about things they know nothing about. And in-laws are just that, in-laws, they should keep their noses out of their childrens marriage and quit assisting their children to make the same mistakes they made in their own marriage. You think if you were divorced and lonely enough to have to live through your children you might learn from the mistakes that got you there.
and the DIL did read this MO!
Now being the father of this beautiful girl and the husband of this so called DIL. yes my wife was just bored browsing around and she happened to read this BS. This is the most beautiful thing that has ever happened to either one of us and you are all blowing everything out of proportion. If I hear about somebody saying anything negative toward anybody MY WIFE (and huebel watch what you say)or there will be great repercussions like NOBODY sees my daughter. so the BS will stop now, yes, good. That DIL my wife went through the pregnancy and she was the most amazing person i’ve ever heard of giving birth so you will respect my wife. if i see DIL one more time its over so everyone choose your words carefully. Anger plays a big part on what somebody says so calm the F down, sit back, sleep on it, i don’t care lets all be a little grown up shall we. i am a fan of Jackie Moon, ‘Everyone Love Everyone.’ My wife makes me very happy. she is a great mother to my daughter so give respect. i’ve never been with somebody who makes me so happy. i’ve never felt so strong of happiness from someone in my life. My wife is my angel. she is good to me. we have differences in opinions just like everyone else but we will make everything work out in time, patience virtue. PLEASE just be HAPPY for me, be happy for my wife, i don’t want this to be a story to tell my daughter when she gets older, do you. ‘everyone was fighting over a bunch of BS because of you kylee.’ sounds pretty terrible doesn’t it. so please nice comments and blessings for us please.
that guy is smart. haha it looks like i have a personality disorder. my name is adam now its bill, guess what i’m jack. please i don’t want a comment about my comment and please just good words for me, my wife, and our daughter. we just want to be happy so stop being so negative please.
i have to admit i thought DIL was a DIS. thats my fault but it still stands. Everyone Love Everyone. life will just go by more pleasantly if everyone would just accept things and be happy. living your life with anger and stress is no way to live, i know. everyone be Happy
The DIL needs to be shown more respect. you don’t have to approve of her or even like her…that is a personal decision. Life is soooo short. Respect Adam’s wife and Kylee’s Mommy… cause future family get togethers are going to be hard on everyone…
Exactly what disrespect has Donna shown her DIL? Other than trying to help her and her son in any and every way she can? I know her and she only has their best interests at heart; the way any good mother would.
The way you all are tearing her apart doesn’t even make sense. Do you even know her? You must not. Otherwise, you would never say these things.
Please reserve judgement until you have facts, not heresay.
@witness…no,i have not met donna yet, but I have read her words myself. All I am saying is that treating my daughter with a little respect would help things alot. I know feelings have been hurt on both sides. There is a difference between helping and interferring. All the while believing they were helping. I have tried hard…very hard to be neutral in this. I am not going to reveal on here what I know. Some words and tones can come across not as intended(maybe). And decisions that are made by them as a couple should not be blamed on one. this can still be fixed. It would be great to go to a future milestone event for my granddaughter with a family that was nice to each other.
There is a difference between having the best interest at heart and your own interest at heart. Making comments about how your DIL is breaking your heart and talking badly about her behind her back, as is obvious from MO’s post is not respectful or to be tolerated.It would be good for people to realize they have lived their lives and allow their children to live their own also! I agree with imagrandmatoo, this needs to be fixed so that future family milestones can be attended nicely by all.
see..i just think this whole situation is getting a little ridiculous. there is a serious lack of respect going on within this certain “love triangle”. the couple, i.e. shelley and adam, are the only ones who matter here. they make the decisions, they have the court, and everyone else just kind of needs to back off. this has escalated beyond what it ever should have. if they ask for advice, thats fine, but any other person’s opinions do not need to be pushed onto them..but everyone has a place in this..shelley needs to stand up for what she believes and say what she needs to..everything gets sorted out better that way. adam needs to stand up for his wife and be there for her, and if he is he needs to show his wife that he’s doing that and how much he really cares. and donna needs to show some respect, not only to shelley, but to their marriage.
i dont know who is who on here writting these comments. i appreciate you all wanting to stick up for me and all but you are actually making things worse. this website isnt the place to argue. i understand that we didnt start this but i am handling this myself. i am tired of these stupid hurtful comments being thrown towards me and donna. this is her page and if her and her friends want to talk badly about me i guess they have that right but i do not want my family stooping to that level. i know what i have to do and im sure adam does as well, so please back off.
i could have sworn that this was all over and done with after what i said, obviously not i see so here are the consquences because i said for everyone to stop and get along, remember everyone love everyone. i said that soooo… grandmatoo, grandmathree, and witness you are no longer aloud to see my daughter. once i figure out who is who you will not see my daughter any more. i’m obviously not playing. now EVERYONE STOP WRITING ON THIS PAGE. unless they are good words about my daughter. EVERYONE STOP
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